Starting school in Spain for the first time can be both exciting and overwhelming—for parents and children alike. At Steps into Spain, we have supported many families relocating to Madrid and beyond, helping them choose the best schools and settle into a new education system. The first month is often exhausting, but with the right approach, it can also be a positive, confidence-building experience for the whole family.
Here are some trusted tips to help your child thrive when starting school in Spain.
Meet the Class Teacher (Tutor / Tutora)
Your child’s class teacher is central to their daily school life. Speak to the school secretary (secretaría) to arrange a meeting or attend orientation sessions if offered. Building a relationship with the teacher ensures open communication and gives you valuable insights into your child’s progress. This is especially important if your child faces challenges such as language barriers or special educational needs.
Sign Up for Afterschool Activities (Extraescolares)
Most schools in Madrid and across Spain offer extracurricular activities ranging from sports to arts and sciences. Information and sign-up forms are usually available on the school website. These activities help children make friends, develop new interests, and feel more connected to their school community—whether during lunch breaks or after the school day ends.
Consider Language Lessons
For many expat families, language is the biggest challenge when adjusting to school in Spain. Enrolling your child in Spanish lessons can significantly ease their integration. Some schools offer additional support during the day, but if not, look into local language academies, private tutors, or online classes. Stronger language skills will help your child feel more confident both in and out of the classroom.
Seek Additional Support if Needed
Every child adapts differently. If yours has learning difficulties, behavioural challenges, or emotional concerns, reach out to the school’s counselling services or special education programmes. If support isn’t available internally, consider external specialists or associations such as:
- Autismo España
- Federación Española de Dislexia
- AEST Asociación Española de Superdotados y con Talento
Stay Informed and Involved
Stay engaged by checking in with your child’s teacher, attending parent-teacher meetings, and joining school events. Becoming part of the school’s parents’ association (AMPA) is another way to connect with other families, gain insight into how the school works, and build a support network.
Join Parents’ WhatsApp Groups
WhatsApp parent groups—love them or loathe them—are one of the best ways to stay updated on day-to-day school matters. They also help build a sense of community. If Spanish is a challenge, you can easily translate messages. Ask your child’s teacher or fellow parents how to join the right group.
Don’t Forget Family Time
The first few weeks can be draining for everyone. Take time out to enjoy Madrid together—its parks, culture, and great September weather. Taking breaks as a family not only relieves stress but also strengthens your child’s sense of security in their new environment.
Final Thoughts
Starting school in Spain can be challenging, but it also offers exciting opportunities for growth and connection. By building strong relationships with teachers, encouraging extracurricular activities, addressing language barriers, and staying involved, you can help your child settle in smoothly. At Steps into Spain, we know how important this first month is for parents and children alike. With the right preparation, you’ll find your family thriving in your new school community.
If you’re planning a move to Spain and trying to make sense of schools in Madrid, there are a few ways to get started — depending on where you are in the process.
Some families begin with a clear overview of how the system works. Others prefer personalised guidance, or hands-on school search support.
You can see the different options here and choose what suits your situation.
Sinéad Galvin is the Founder of Steps into Spain, a boutique education consultancy based in Madrid. She helps families from all over the world find the right school for their child and navigate the Spanish admissions process. Get in touch via stepsintospain.es or Reserva tu llamada gratuita to get started.
